Kursus Pra-Perkhawinan Siri 6/2012

Salam!

How ya'll been doing? Just as i promised. Im gonna write up a little something i did on my previous weekend. Yeahh,its been 2 weeks now. Baru sekarang nak carik masa menaip! Was busy with whatever i was doing *sleeping/eating/watching movies*. To be exact,i was also waiting for my sijil to be printed out. Okay,ini hanya alasan. =)

Last 2 weekends,15th December 2012, i attended 1 out of so many syarat to build a masjid. Yeayy,getting married is a heck of tidies work to do. After attending the 2 days course,makin banyak pula benda nak kene tau. Especially the isi borang part. This might sound lame,but i just knew that nak kawen pun kene submit borang a week a head of date nak nikah for approval from Jabatan Agama Islam. Not forgetting all the valid documents needed to submit. Ni tak payah citer kot,nanti korang gie kursus tu ustad2,kadi2 tu akan explain in detail. >.<

So,here's me in day 1. Yeayyy! Yellowissh.

This was the hall we had to sit in from 8am - 5pm. Seating was given according to name list. So agak2 kalau name tu A,dapat lah duk depan. Mau nama Z,no choice but to seat at the back. Yes,since its a part of majlis agama,they put the males in front while the females at the back. Motif,ermmmm,lelaki pembimbing wanita. Cewahhh! Ayat xley belahh. Buat its true. =)

This was the program tentatives. Paling suke part makan. Hhahaha. Sedap tau! Nasi lemak,nasik minyak,ayam masak lemak cili padi,sambal belacan,ikan masin,fruits...the list just goes on...*meleleh air liur teringt balik the food they served us*.Each slot was only 1 hour. I dont think it was enough since penceramah pun masing2 macam banyak idea n benda nak share but they gotta cramp everything according to schedule.

Haaa,ni pulak Miera. She was my peneman secara kebetulan. I tought i was gonna be alone thru out the course,sebab most of my friend dah amik last semester.Cik roomie pun dh amik,2 kali pulak tu. Hahhaa. Oh,while im typing this entry. Rombongan meminang Cik Abg syg miera is in her home. Happy being booked babe! Tahun depan tunang, n the following year is nikah. Ahh,happy for u!

Here's me in day 2. Red + Peach. Im really bad at matching my tudung n my outfit. Main sbat tibai je. Asal tutup ape yang perlu. Hahahaha.

Day 2 went just as smooth as day 1. But the penutup was,erggghhh! Ade test ok. Im not sure if this is applicable to all states jabatan agama islam or what. Tapi jabatan agama islam pahang has a test before they end the course. 105 questions,consist of 11 parts. Haaa,nak jawab tu siap ade kertas OMR okayyyy! And the question paper tak boleh conteng,sebab kene pulangkan. Hurmmm,rasa mcm nak amik SPM pun ade.

Wallllaaaa! After 2 weeks,here's my sijil. Cik abg punya skali,he took the course with me. Both of us are now eligible to get married,despite so many more other paper work to fill. *sighhs* 

p/s ; Azam 2012 to attend kursus kawen has been acomplish. Azam 2013 to be engganged. Mampu ke terlaksana. >.<

Preview Prebiu

Been wanting to post up something i did during my previous weekend. Oh,well. I have been busy with life. Will get back to dear blogger soon. Heee.

p/s : Nak pelamin?Erkkkk...

Message plus copy

Salams!

Heard of message plus copy before?Yes?No?Maybe?
Well,in short let me just say that Maxis has been offering this service to their maxis telco users for sometime. And yes,i am 1 of those thousands that subscribed to it.

What it does? Basically,it copies almost all Ur received msg to another registered number that we picked. Like wise, i registered my messages to be copied to Cik Abg. So whenever anyone text's me,he will get 1 to. Oh,he does the same thing too.I get basically most of his messages to.Just to be fair of course.

Sound scary kan.Having to subscribe to this, was suppose to help us develop a deeper trust and make the insecure feeling go away,at first. See,he happens to have this bunch of 'ladies' texting and calling him last time.I dont thing i need to explain who this bunch of ladies are. Yes,he is a trustworthy man so he doesn't entertain those bunch of text from them.

Me,on the other hand, is a student. So of course,there will be people from the opposite sex in my class. Assignment group and so on. Im sure u get what i mean too.And those who really know me,im not the kind of person who actually talks to other boys,unless needed too.I pretty much try avoid talking to them. Keeping my self low from anyone's radar most of them time. Hhaha.

But lately,i think im gonna unsubscribe myself from this service. I dont know. Is it me who's being over sensitive when being asked or what else. Yes,he gets all the text that any of u text me. So sometimes,he gets misunderstood with the context of text he received because he cant see who sent those text. Example i shall give to make u understand yeaa.

Eg 1 :

*texting with my classmates*
Me : Harini gie class x?Awal or lambat?
Friend : Babe,i fetch u later for class k.Will text later.

*suddenly*
Him : Ma,ma nak gie class dengan siapa tu?

And whenever i get text like that from him. Ill get angry so fast,darah muda mungkin. I dont know. I mean,i dont mind him asking. But the way he's asking making me look like a person who's gonna cheat on him.Eventhough niat dia was just to ask out of curiosity.I get irritated. Hurmm.

Eg 2 :
*Received text from roomate*
Roomate : Sayangku,balik bila?

*Tak sempat reply*
Him : Siapa panggil ma sayang tu?Hmmm..

Situation like this does happen. All because of the message plus thingy. Im not saing it not a good service. But i think its making us quarrel for no reason at times. What annoys me most is both of us hati batu,keras kepala. Dua2 taknak move n say sorry or something to confront to make things better when situation get tight.

In a day or two. I shall unsubscribe myself to that service.I cant leave on a relationship that keeps quarrelling all the time because of text misundertsanding. I cant!




p/s ; getting busy toward the final semester exam is a norm.tak paham,tak pe.don't need to be sarcastic. 

Preparation.

Kindda stealing some time out for this post.Gonna make a quick flash entry eyy!

Currently going crazy with my Final Year Project Paper proposal. Lets just say I don't really understand the concept n stuff of on what im doing.I keep changing my Project Paper topic when next Wednesday is where i should b all prepared to present and b questioned no matter what bomb shell i receive.

Journals coming from all sources making me even more confuse.

As u can see,i have 5 days left till my presentation day.It sounds far away,yet tolak makan minum tido,main2,curik2 masa online,class.*sighhsss*..i dont think i even have 48 hours to complete everything perfectly.

When things not going right,just the encouragement n spirit to help me cheer.

*read upwards*

Haihhh!Let's b positive. Kalau kene hentam Rabu ni,Insya'Allah that would be my motivation to do better in my real FYP next 2 semester. There's nothing impossible for me. Lets have faith on myself.

Gotta rush back into reality. Bye bloggie,hello journals!

Short-term VS Long-term

2 years ago.

Him : Ma,bila kite nak kawen?

Me:*without thinking* Habis belajar,terus kawen! Hikk. =)

Him: Janji?
Me: Iyerr,start la kumpul duit.
Him: Ok!

Now.
2 years gone by.Proses pengajian hampir ke garisan penamat.

Him: Ma habes blaja bulan 9 taun depan kan.Ayah ma balik bulan 12,kite kawen k.
Me: Errm.Tunggu ma dapat kerja baru kawen boleh?
*dalam kepala pikir nak ada kereta + rumah + stable job*
Him:Dulu kata boleh terus kawen lepas habes blaja.Hmmm!
Me:*full of guilt*

How should i put words into right phrases.

Yes,looking at all my close friends getting engage and soon to be a wife is really a great n awesome feeling. I share n feel those happy moments. I would really love to feel them too. However,before all these takes place,i WANT to have my own stable life.

Not saying that he cant afford to take good care of me,tapi apa guna aku belajar macam orang gila*just metaphoring* but i can't get to have my own work. I want a job. I want to be able to have my own monthly salary. I dont wanna be too dependent on him.

I want to have my own house went im officially a wife. Not to be arrogant or selfish that i dont wanna stay with my in-law's. But,i too wanna have my privacy. I'm sure those who are reading would understand what im trying to say. Pergerakan,perlakuan n percakapan adalah terbatas if i was to stay with them. Yes,now i dont mind having my weekend with them but that is it.

A car. Arghh! Another asset that someone really needs nowadays. Students life sekarang pun,kadang2 terasa jugak nak mintak kereta sebijik from my parents. Tapi apakan daya. Not that they can't afford to get me 1,but it wouldn't be fair if they got me 1 but my other brother's dont get any. Students life pun dah rasa mcm ni,what else when i get out into reality world. Cant rely on public transportation nowadays. Not all palces can be reached with LRT could they.

Another dream i have been having.

Dah jadi wife,someday ill sure to be a mother. Cewaaah! Ok,ni part berangan je. Ill b a working mother. Not forever,but at least till my kids gets into school. The day 'they' start schooling,i will immediately resign. Will pay my full attention on them. So to prepare me with these situation,i must start working as soon as a i graduate.I need to save.Saving for the future.Amacam?Gila tak berangan aku. Hehh!

p/s : Semester coming to an end. 1 short semester + 1 long semester n im done.